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Re: [APO-L] *Inter*chapter dating
daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Rachel Kuhn)
Mon Dec 15 21:26:23 2003
Date: Mon, 15 Dec 2003 18:26:11 -0800
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From: Rachel Kuhn <iceangel99@yahoo.com>
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That's generally a no-no but for pre-existing situations i dont see the big deal. hypothetical: boy and girl are actives and dating. boy is a year or more older than girl, he graduates, and decides to be on staff. girl, in the meantime is still an undergraduate and an active--should they break up just because boy is on staff? no. that would be ridiculous.
I dont think that staff members should necessarially go after actives as potential dates, but age wise some staff members arent any older than actives (i'm 22, just out of undergrad, and i have friends I pledged with who are 5th yr undergrads, same age as me, and still active. some people also choose to be actives in graduate school, law school, etc) but if a staff member and active develop a friendship and it then develops into something more, they can't help the way they feel about each other. as long as they keep the relationship on the dl until the active graduates, i'd say it's fine and i'm sure it's happened in the past.
Rachel
Michael Shulman <mikeinapo@hotmail.com> wrote:
This might generate a lot of responses, but...
On the topic of interchapter dating, what about staff dating actives. Let's
say a chapter rep for another chapter starts going out with someone in a
nearby chapter. I know it's frowned upon, but are there written policies
prohibiting or encouraging it?
Shulman
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> For all of the discussion of Intrachapter dating, has anyone had
signficiant
> problems with *Inter*Chapter dating? (Other than being too far from other
> chapters to make it possible. :)
>
> Randy
>
Rachel Kuhn
Graduate Assistant
Office of Professional Development
Syracuse University
250 Huntington Hall
(315) 443-4696
Alpha Phi Omega
Section 89 Staff
rmkuhn@syr.edu
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<DIV><BR>That's generally a no-no but for pre-existing situations i dont see the big deal. hypothetical: boy and girl are actives and dating. boy is a year or more older than girl, he graduates, and decides to be on staff. girl, in the meantime is still an undergraduate and an active--should they break up just because boy is on staff? no. that would be ridiculous. </DIV>
<DIV> </DIV>
<DIV>I dont think that staff members should necessarially go after actives as potential dates, but age wise some staff members arent any older than actives (i'm 22, just out of undergrad, and i have friends I pledged with who are 5th yr undergrads, same age as me, and still active. some people also choose to be actives in graduate school, law school, etc) but if a staff member and active develop a friendship and it then develops into something more, they can't help the way they feel about each other. as long as they keep the relationship on the dl until the active graduates, i'd say it's fine and i'm sure it's happened in the past.</DIV>
<DIV>Rachel</DIV>
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<DIV><BR><B><I>Michael Shulman <mikeinapo@hotmail.com></I></B> wrote:</DIV>
<BLOCKQUOTE class=replbq style="PADDING-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; BORDER-LEFT: #1010ff 2px solid">This might generate a lot of responses, but...<BR><BR>On the topic of interchapter dating, what about staff dating actives. Let's<BR>say a chapter rep for another chapter starts going out with someone in a<BR>nearby chapter. I know it's frowned upon, but are there written policies<BR>prohibiting or encouraging it?<BR><BR>Shulman<BR>Xi Rho Alum<BR>----------------------------------------------------------------------------<BR>This is our world now... the world of the electron and the switch, the<BR>beauty of the baud.<BR>----- Original Message -----<BR>From: "Finder, Randolph J Mr NGB-ARNG" <RANDOLPH.FINDER@NGB.ARMY.MIL><BR>To: <APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU><BR>Sent: Monday, December 15, 2003 2:23 PM<BR>Subject: [APO-L] *Inter*chapter dating<BR><BR><BR>> For all of the discussion of Intrachapter dating, has anyone had<BR>signficiant<BR>> problems with *Inter*Chapter dating? !
(Other
than being too far from other<BR>> chapters to make it possible. :)<BR>><BR>> Randy<BR>></BLOCKQUOTE><BR><BR>Rachel Kuhn<br><br>Graduate Assistant<br>Office of Professional Development<br>Syracuse University<br>250 Huntington Hall<br>(315) 443-4696<br><br>Alpha Phi Omega<br>Section 89 Staff<br><br>rmkuhn@syr.edu<br>iceangel99@yahoo.com<p><hr SIZE=1>
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