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[APO-L] Intrachapter dating

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Michael Gallagher)
Sun Dec 7 20:29:24 2003

Date:         Sun, 7 Dec 2003 20:29:35 -0500
Reply-To: Michael Gallagher <famtree@UDel.Edu>
From: Michael Gallagher <famtree@UDel.Edu>
To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU

Greetings,

Zeta Sigma Chapter at the University of Delaware just held its initiation.
We now have 5 new brothers, bringing our total to 11.  That has allowed for
slight alleviation of a problem, but...

The situation is as follows: Our current Membership VP is a sophomore &
engaged to be married.  His fiancee will probably transfer to UD this
Spring.  If she does, she will pledge.  Our pledgemaster is an NIB who is
female (thus not the VPM).

What policies on intrachapter dating exist?  Has there ever been a situation
when a Brother's/officer's/VPM's fiance(e) has pledged?  What has been done
in these situations.

I've never been on a date, but I would think that fiance(e)s pledging is
different from boyfriends & girlfriends pledging .

In LFS,

Michael Gallagher
Historian & Alumni VP (gotta get used to this; I was Webmaster or co- since
Spring 2002)

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