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Re: [APO-L] APO House rule

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Michael Ryan Gallagher)
Thu Aug 28 14:22:52 2003

Date:         Thu, 28 Aug 2003 14:21:50 -0400
Reply-To: Michael Ryan Gallagher <famtree@UDel.Edu>
From: Michael Ryan Gallagher <famtree@UDel.Edu>
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I agree totally with Mark.  Are there chapters that would like an =
official, lettered house?  If not, why is this policy being questioned?  =
Informal houses are apparently common if you must have them.  Mark said =
he's sounding like a lawyer- well, I CAN & OFTEN DO do the same.  In =
fact (& those of you who were at the '02 Convention know this), if there =
is an issue about which I feel strongly, am uncertain, or am =
uncomfortable, I will let that be known, very vocally, especially on the =
legislative floor.  I plan to go to the '04 convention & not knowing by =
then who else will want to, I plan to have 1 or 2 votes to use AGAINST =
changing this policy, & as long as I have at least one, I can speak.  =
Debates like this get people thinking & produce ammunition for debates =
both informally (such as this) & formally (organizational conventions, =
congresses, national meetings, or whatever a particular group calls =
them).

Fraternally,

Michael Gallagher
  ----- Original Message -----=20
  From: Mark Stratton=20
  To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU=20
  Sent: Thursday, August 28, 2003 12:56 PM
  Subject: Re: [APO-L] APO House rule


  Brothers,

  I'm responding to some of Dan's points below.

  A.  No amount of bylaws (either at the Fraternity level or Chapter =
level) will prevent the organization from being sued.  So, if the goal =
of Risk Management is to manage risk, it doesn't seem wise to me to say, =
"hey, let's increase the risk we'll take as an Organization."  The =
chapter would have a house (in Dan's scenario) and even members who =
don't LIVE there will pay the price if something happens to the Chapter. =
 This is true in all cases - if the Chapter gets into trouble, it spills =
over to all the members (particularly if a charter is revoked).  I don't =
see how, even in Dan's scenario, this is better for the FRATERNITY as an =
organization.  It may be better for a CHAPTER given circumstances on a =
particular campus, true.  Something that exposes the Fraternity to this =
type of liability, however, seems unwise to me.

  B.  If Brothers of a chapter move into a house that they rent, the =
responsibility for upkeep, maintenance, etc. falls to the OWNER(S) of =
the house, not the renters (now, I suppose there is a statute somewhere =
in some state or city that says otherwise).  If the chapter, however, =
becomes the owner of a house, then the CHAPTER has the responsiblity for =
upkeep, etc. and is responsibile if something happens at the house =
(someone falls and gets hurt, etc.)  If Brothers move in together to a =
house they rent and something happens, the Fraternity may still be sued. =
 But were that to happen, the Fraternity would be able to say "We do not =
allow our chapters to own houses.  In this particular case, members of a =
chapter, all college students, decided to be roommates.  The lease is =
for those individual members, not the chapter or our organization."  =
While that's not always an impervious defense, the policy nevertheless =
allows the Fraternity to have a measure of protection.  (I am not a =
lawyer, though some of you will say I sound like one.)  :-)

  At the end of the day, Brothers, we must ask ourselves this question =
(really about this and other policies):

  "Is changing the current policy in the best interest of Alpha Phi =
Omega?"

  If the answer is no, and in this case my own opinion is that the =
answer is "no", then we do not change the policy.  And I feel that way =
even if the University owns the property.  Why?  Because it is property =
that is leased to or in the name of the Chapter.  Now, you may say, =
"what about conferences when chapters rent facilities for events?"  =
That, to me, is an unavoidable circumstance - chapters need to rent =
space for events (projects, banquets, etc., all of which are in line =
with the goals and programs of the Fraternity.  Living together, =
however, is not (to me) one of those "unavoidable circumstances" and, as =
such, there is no need for it.

  This is, in my opinion, a very dangerours road we are heading down, =
and I hope we take the next exit ramp and get off it quickly.  (What is =
with me and analogies today?)  :-)

  Fraternally,

  Mark
    Its not a forced decision, and its not unto the chapter to pay or =
support a house(campus provided or not). Bylaws can be made, etc.=20

    My simplistic example. 4 Brothers, (any gender), decide to rent a =
house off campus. It's their choice,  no one from the chapter is =
responsible, but those 4 individuals. They maintain upkeep, etc. If =
there is a function, and food is provided, that is not the house owners =
responsibility, but the chapter's, as it would be, if it was taking =
place anywhere else.  If the 4 people choose to move out, or live =
separately, or else where, the house no longer remains the APO house.  =
But current rules forbid something being called the APO house.

    Some issues raised:
    1) Parents may have concerns over co-ed living.  We're all big boys =
and girls now. Secondly, no one is forced to live in a house of any =
kind, unless they want/can afford to.

    2)Tensions. As I said before, we're all big boys and girls. Often =
enough, brothers end up rooming together. There are issues, and they =
deal with them.

    3)Cleaning/Maintenance. Homeowners are responsible for their own =
house. If they choose to host a function (it is their choice, since they =
own/rent the house), they can ask for help cleaning, or refuse future =
hosting.

    4) Taking away from service. This shouldn't be an issue. The meeting =
is going to be held. As is the function. But its much easier to plan =
this way, when you don't have to worry about the campus giving you =
problems over availability.  IF having a house takes away from service, =
there are more serious problems to worry about.=20

    5)Internal problems. This may fall under tensions, but we are all =
big boys and girls, as I've mentioned earlier. We're grown up enough to =
deal with a problem, and hopefully not let it fall into APO business. =
But as I also mentioned, brothers have dormed together before. So its =
nothing new.

    I can try to answer/suggest more things further down the road, but =
that's all I have time for currently.

    Thank you all for your input, I enjoy this debate.

    In LFS,=20
    Dan




      ----- Original Message -----=20
      From: Rachel=20
      To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU=20
      Sent: Thursday, August 28, 2003 11:24 AM
      Subject: Re: [APO-L] APO House rule


      First of all, by stating "Chapter property" i was mostly referring =
to the property of the chapter located within the said office (ritual =
materials, furniture, papers, other misc. office things).  Offices are =
not owned by the fraternity, but on the other hand, neither are all =
fraternity houses.  Some fraternity houses are owned by universities as =
a way of controlling the Greek community.  Rochester Institute of =
Technology in Rochester, NY recently built very nice fraternity/sorority =
houses on its campus.  Miami University in Oxford, Ohio's sorority =
housing is all located in sorority dorms on campus.  So who do they call =
when the roof leaks?  they call campus maintenance.  The university =
takes some of the liability off of the fraternity itself because it can =
more easily regulate what goes on in these places--i.e. they must be in =
compliance with university rules on alcohol, etc.  Heavy penalties can =
be placed on these greek organizations not only by the national =
organization itself, but the university as well.  Also, since it is =
University property, it's a lot like deciding whether to live on or off =
campus.  If you do not live there, you don't pay the extra 1,000 or =
whatever per semester.  I'm not saying that this is what APhiO should =
have, but it is a situation that may work on campuses where it is =
available.      =20

      Rachel Kuhn
      Section 89 staff
      Zeta Delta alum
      Graduate student, Syracuse University School of Education
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<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>I agree totally with Mark.&nbsp; Are =
there chapters=20
that would like an official, lettered house?&nbsp; If not, why is this =
policy=20
being questioned?&nbsp; Informal houses are apparently common if you =
must have=20
them.&nbsp; Mark said he's sounding like a lawyer- well, I CAN &amp; =
OFTEN DO do=20
the same.&nbsp; In fact (&amp; those of you who were at the '02 =
Convention know=20
this), if there is an issue about which I feel strongly, am uncertain, =
or am=20
uncomfortable, I will let that be known, very vocally, especially on the =

legislative floor.&nbsp; I plan to go to the '04 convention &amp; not =
knowing by=20
then who else will want to, I plan to have 1 or 2 votes to use AGAINST =
changing=20
this policy, &amp; as long as I have at least one, I can speak.&nbsp; =
Debates=20
like this get people thinking &amp; produce ammunition for debates both=20
informally (such as this) &amp; formally (organizational conventions,=20
congresses, national meetings, or whatever a particular group calls=20
them).</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Fraternally,</FONT></DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
<DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Michael Gallagher</FONT></DIV>
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  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- </DIV>
  <DIV=20
  style=3D"BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: =
black"><B>From:</B>=20
  <A title=3Dmark_stratton@yahoo.com =
href=3D"mailto:mark_stratton@yahoo.com">Mark=20
  Stratton</A> </DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A =
title=3DAPO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU=20
  href=3D"mailto:APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU">APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU</A> =
</DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, August 28, 2003 =
12:56=20
  PM</DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: [APO-L] APO House =
rule</DIV>
  <DIV><BR></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Brothers,</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>I'm responding to some of Dan's =
points=20
  below.</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>A.&nbsp; No amount of bylaws (either =
at the=20
  Fraternity level or Chapter level) will prevent the organization from =
being=20
  sued.&nbsp; So, if the goal of Risk Management is to manage risk, it =
doesn't=20
  seem wise to me to say, "hey, let's increase the risk we'll take as an =

  Organization."&nbsp; The chapter would have a house (in Dan's =
scenario) and=20
  even members who don't LIVE there will pay the price if something =
happens to=20
  the Chapter.&nbsp; This is true in all cases - if the Chapter gets =
into=20
  trouble, it spills over to all the members (particularly if a charter =
is=20
  revoked).&nbsp; I don't see how, even in Dan's scenario, this is =
better for=20
  the FRATERNITY as an organization.&nbsp; It may be better for a =
CHAPTER given=20
  circumstances on a particular campus, true.&nbsp; Something that =
exposes the=20
  Fraternity to this type of liability, however, seems unwise to=20
me.</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>B.&nbsp; If Brothers of a chapter =
move into a=20
  house that they rent, the responsibility for upkeep, maintenance, etc. =
falls=20
  to the OWNER(S) of the house, not the renters (now, I suppose there is =
a=20
  statute somewhere in some state or city that says otherwise).&nbsp; If =
the=20
  chapter, however, becomes the owner of a house, then the CHAPTER has =
the=20
  responsiblity for upkeep, etc. and is responsibile if something =
happens at the=20
  house (someone falls and gets hurt, etc.)&nbsp; If Brothers move in =
together=20
  to a house they rent and something happens, the Fraternity may still =
be=20
  sued.&nbsp; But were that to happen, the Fraternity would be able to =
say "We=20
  do not allow our chapters to own houses.&nbsp; In this particular =
case,=20
  members of a chapter, all college students, decided to be =
roommates.&nbsp; The=20
  lease is for those individual members, not the chapter or our=20
  organization."&nbsp; While that's not always an impervious defense, =
the policy=20
  nevertheless allows the Fraternity to have a measure of =
protection.&nbsp; (I=20
  am not a lawyer, though some of you will say I sound like one.)&nbsp;=20
  :-)</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>At the end of the day, Brothers, we =
must ask=20
  ourselves this question (really about this and other =
policies):</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>"Is changing the current policy in =
the best=20
  interest of Alpha Phi Omega?"</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>If the answer is no, and in this case =
my own=20
  opinion is that the answer is "no", then we do not change the =
policy.&nbsp;=20
  And I feel that way even if the University owns the property.&nbsp; =
Why?&nbsp;=20
  Because it is property that is leased to or in the name of the =
Chapter.&nbsp;=20
  Now, you may say, "what about conferences when chapters rent =
facilities for=20
  events?"&nbsp; That, to me, is an unavoidable circumstance - chapters =
need to=20
  rent space for events (projects, banquets, etc., all of which are in =
line with=20
  the goals and programs of the Fraternity.&nbsp; Living together, =
however, is=20
  not (to me) one of those "unavoidable circumstances" and, as such, =
there is no=20
  need for it.</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>This is, in my opinion, a very =
dangerours road we=20
  are heading down, and I hope we take the next exit ramp and get off it =

  quickly.&nbsp; (What is with me and analogies today?)&nbsp; =
:-)</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Fraternally,</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Mark</FONT></DIV>
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    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Its not a forced decision, and its =
not unto the=20
    chapter to pay or support a house(campus provided or not). Bylaws =
can be=20
    made, etc. </FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>My simplistic example. 4 Brothers, =
(any=20
    gender), decide to rent a house off campus. It's their choice,&nbsp; =
no one=20
    from the chapter is responsible, but those 4 individuals. They =
maintain=20
    upkeep, etc. If there is a function, and food is provided, that is =
not the=20
    house owners responsibility, but the chapter's, as it would be, if =
it was=20
    taking place anywhere else.&nbsp; If the 4 people choose to move =
out, or=20
    live separately, or else where, the house no longer remains the APO=20
    house.&nbsp; But current rules forbid something being called the APO =

    house.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Some issues raised:</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>1) Parents may have concerns over =
co-ed=20
    living.&nbsp; We're all big boys and girls now. Secondly, no one is =
forced=20
    to live in a house of any kind, unless they want/can afford =
to.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>2)Tensions. As I said before, we're =
all big=20
    boys and girls. Often enough, brothers end up rooming together. =
There are=20
    issues, and they deal with them.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>3)Cleaning/Maintenance. Homeowners =
are=20
    responsible for their own house. If they choose to host a function =
(it is=20
    their choice, since they own/rent the house), they can ask for help=20
    cleaning, or refuse future hosting.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>4) Taking away from service. This =
shouldn't be=20
    an issue. The meeting is going to be held. As is the function. But =
its much=20
    easier to plan this way, when you don't have to worry about the =
campus=20
    giving you problems over availability.&nbsp; IF having a house takes =
away=20
    from service, there are more serious problems to worry about. =
</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial =
size=3D2></FONT><FONT=20
    face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial =
size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial=20
    size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>5)Internal problems. This may fall =
under=20
    tensions, but we are all big boys and girls, as I've mentioned =
earlier.=20
    We're grown up enough to deal with a problem, and hopefully not let =
it fall=20
    into APO business. But as I also mentioned, brothers have dormed =
together=20
    before. So its nothing new.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>I can try to answer/suggest more =
things further=20
    down the road, but that's all I have time for =
currently.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Thank you all for your input, I =
enjoy this=20
    debate.</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>In LFS, </FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2>Dan</FONT></DIV>
    <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial=20
    size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV>&nbsp;</DIV>
    <DIV><BR></DIV>
    <BLOCKQUOTE=20
    style=3D"PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; MARGIN-LEFT: 5px; =
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      <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial">----- Original Message ----- =
</DIV>
      <DIV=20
      style=3D"BACKGROUND: #e4e4e4; FONT: 10pt arial; font-color: =
black"><B>From:</B>=20
      <A title=3Diceangel99@yahoo.com=20
      href=3D"mailto:iceangel99@yahoo.com">Rachel</A> </DIV>
      <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A =
title=3DAPO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU=20
      =
href=3D"mailto:APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU">APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU</A> =
</DIV>
      <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, August 28, =
2003 11:24=20
      AM</DIV>
      <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> Re: [APO-L] APO =
House=20
      rule</DIV>
      <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial =
size=3D2></FONT><FONT=20
      face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT><FONT face=3DArial =
size=3D2></FONT><BR></DIV>
      <DIV>
      <DIV>First of all, by stating "Chapter property" i was mostly =
referring to=20
      the property of the chapter located within the said office (ritual =

      materials, furniture, papers, other misc. office things).&nbsp; =
Offices=20
      are not owned by the fraternity, but on the other hand, neither =
are all=20
      fraternity houses.&nbsp; Some fraternity houses are owned by =
universities=20
      as a way of controlling the Greek community.&nbsp;&nbsp;Rochester=20
      Institute of Technology in Rochester, NY recently built very nice=20
      fraternity/sorority houses on its campus.&nbsp; Miami University =
in=20
      Oxford, Ohio's sorority housing is all located in sorority dorms =
on=20
      campus.&nbsp; So who do they call when the roof leaks?&nbsp; they =
call=20
      campus maintenance.&nbsp;&nbsp;The university takes some of the =
liability=20
      off of the fraternity itself because it can more easily regulate =
what goes=20
      on in these places--i.e. they must be in compliance with =
university rules=20
      on&nbsp;alcohol, etc.&nbsp; Heavy penalties can be placed on these =
greek=20
      organizations not&nbsp;only by the national organization itself, =
but the=20
      university as well.&nbsp; Also, since it is University property, =
it's a=20
      lot like deciding whether to live on or off campus.&nbsp; If you =
do not=20
      live there, you don't pay the extra 1,000 or whatever per =
semester.&nbsp;=20
      I'm not saying that this is what&nbsp;APhiO should have, but it is =
a=20
      situation&nbsp;that may work on campuses where it is =
available.&nbsp;=20
      &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </DIV>
      <DIV><FONT face=3DArial size=3D2></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
      <DIV>Rachel Kuhn</DIV>
      <DIV>Section 89 staff</DIV>
      <DIV>Zeta Delta alum</DIV>
      <DIV>Graduate student, Syracuse University School of=20
    =
Education</DIV></DIV></BLOCKQUOTE></BLOCKQUOTE></BLOCKQUOTE></BODY></HTML=
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