[401] in Depressing_Thoughts
Re: More male/female stuff... warning...
rk@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (rk@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Wed Oct 5 11:43:58 1988
(Enter, trying not to be rude mode ...)
I'm sorry, but I have a lot of trouble with this:
(1) Maybe you will find that you like a person more than you like
being Jewish. Your arguments smack of "I'm never going to date
anyone from California because I once went to school there and I
known I would NEVER want to live there and they might want to live
there."
(2) Maybe she will like you so much that she will truly and deeply
want to convert. (Now we're plus one on the deal ...)
(3) What's wrong with dating her (like taking her out to dinner)
(rather than immediately becoming serious about her) and talking to
her more to find out if she's Jewish. At the best you have a good time and
find out she is and at the worst you have a good time and find out she
isn't. You should be able to find out in one date (or maybe two).
Having a good time is what's important here, right?
(You should probably substitute "love" for "like" wherever I use it above.)
(If you dislike arguments one and two above carefully consider argument
three which I think is the most important.)
