[1319] in Depressing_Thoughts
Re: The Fire
wesommer@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (wesommer@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Mon Jul 23 13:00:43 1990
I'll second Harold's advice; in such situations, you often need to make the
emotional equivalent of a blow from a 2x4 to the head; anything less subtle
will often not get through, or be interpreted the wrong way.
A clean break sooner, with a significant emotional outburst, is less painful
in the long run than a long, slowly disintegrating relationship which
eventually dies in such an outburst...