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Re: meeting people

datuv@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (datuv@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Tue Aug 2 14:33:51 1988

But Aaron, I think you have to quantize what you mean by having someone to 
think about...  Does that mean someone who you are attracted to, and it gives
you a glow to think about them.  Or does this mean you are actively pursuing
them or what?  I mean why is it such a lose if you don't think about a 
particular person.  Wouldn't you rather think about your friends, and do things
for them, then this said person, who doesn't appreciate your specialness??
Don't you think it would be frustrating to just *think* about a person...
Well, maybe not.  Again, it's dependent on whether you are expecting anything
to come of it, etc.  If all you want to do is think about the person, than fine.
I just haven't found too many circumstances, though, where someone is just
satisfied by this state...

				
					----Laura


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