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mars@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (mars@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Sun Feb 18 22:37:26 1990

Even though it is a small community, I tend to read Coatrack without
looking at names..  Anyway, I usually don't mind letting people know
what's wrong with my life, unless those people are 5.0's!!!

But, life is hard when he has a girlfriend and I have no idea what to
do now.  Do I leave him alone?  When all is said and done, did I seduce
him or the other way around?  Does society blame "the other woman" or
the man involved?

I'm a second-term senior, I should be able to have fun without 
commitment, not hurt anyone.  He'd be perfect if only she weren't there.
I don't relish hurting her.  He said he'd tell her, but tell her what?
He said he can't promise it won't happen again because he doesn't want
to make promises he can't keep.  Does that mean he will keep coming to 
me???  Should I not even touch this?

How could I, my parents' daughter, be in a situation like this?  Moral,
sensible me...

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