[3231] in Depressing_Thoughts
Re: Full Circle, plus one.
mhbraun@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (mhbraun@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Sun Jul 19 22:46:08 1992
What do you do: You deal.
But first you you have to work the initial reaction out of your system. You
do whatever is necessary (with the minimum injury) to get your self in a state
of mind that you can think. If you are like me, this often comes in the state
where you have pushed yourself to (physical) exhaustion and are no longer able
to have a physical reaction and in this state can 'think.'
Recently, I lost someone that I wanted back, I tried my best to get her back.
I failed. (not what you wanted to hear). Eventually, I 'came to terms' with
the fact that it was not going to happen. One thing to keep in mind is that
if the person does not think that you are the 'right' person, and cannot be
convinced of this, then by definition she is not the 'right' person, because
it is a bilateral situation.
You can't make someone see a truth they don't want to, because it might not be
true for them.
There is *always* someone else. There are lots of people out there.
