[102] in Depressing_Thoughts
Re: meeting people
jon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (jon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU)
Tue Aug 2 15:26:03 1988
Yes, Laura there are other things to do with one's time, but I don't
think that matters much. I know I tend to focus on one thing at time
and it bothers me until I deal with it, i.e. I just don't put it one
the queue to worry about when appropriate. Also when people start
worrying about the lack of a relationship, frequently the real problem
isn't the lack of a relationship but the lack of prospects and the
dread feeling that there will never be any ... (it's real hard to
change that feeling yourself, it feeds upon itself. And if you had
somebody there to tell you it just ain't so, you probably wouldn't
feel that way in the first place.)
-- Jon
