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[Tlhingan-hol] On the word {tlho'} and its kin

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Felix Malmenbeck)
Mon Jan 2 05:58:07 2012

From: Felix Malmenbeck <felixm@kth.se>
To: "tlhIngan-Hol@KLI.org" <tlhIngan-Hol@KLI.org>
Date: Mon, 2 Jan 2012 10:57:42 +0000
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I've been thinking: We humans are all very used to expressing our emotions =
through words. If we are grateful, we say "Thank you!". If we are sorry, we=
 say "I'm sorry."
Words are so powerful that we are sometimes afraid to utter them, or worry =
what will happen if we don't. Case in point: "I love you."
Indeed, words are so valuable to us that they can be claimed in penance: Yo=
u can demand an apology of somebody, and a court can even sentence you to m=
ake a public apology.

Klingons have their own ritual words, for example in the case of qa'meH vIt=
tlheghmey and peghmey vIttlheghmey.
In general, though, Klingons are known to be more action-oriented. Indeed, =
the last time I checked my copy of TKW, the proverb {bI'IQchugh, yab Qel yI=
Such.} wasn't in there, and in PK, Worf explicitly states that Klingons don=
't say "Excuse me" or "Thank you". {nughpu' pIm, tIghmey pIm.}
Indeed, MO has stated many times that Klingons don't say {qatlho'}, and I g=
uess we shouldn't be surprised. After all, what function does this word act=
ually serve? If you really NEED to state satisfaction explicitly, there's a=
lready the word {maj}, not to mention verbs such as {Quch} and {bel}.
I've been thinking, therefore: What if the word {tlho'} refers to something=
 more than just uttering a ritualized set of words? What if it actually ref=
ers to repaying somebody's honorable actions, not because it is demanded of=
 one but because one feels gratitude towards them?

When somebody does something towards you that merit gratitude, you might as=
k {chay' qatlho'laH} ("How can I thank you?") or {qatlho'nIS}** ("I must th=
ank you"). If one DID say simply {qatlho'}, it would be to say "I will do s=
omething to thank you"; it would be a promise of an act to come, not the ac=
t itself.
One might also say something like {ghaH vItlho'meH ghaHvaD targhwIj nIvqu' =
vInob}; "I shall give him my finest targ as thanks".
{DutoDbogh tera'nganvaD qagh Danobchugh, Datlho'Ha'.} - "Giving a Terran ga=
gh is a poor way of thanking her for saving your life."
{tlho'meH targh} - "thank you targ" ('cuz thank you cards are for weaklings=
)

...or perhaps {tlho'} really DOES refer to being in a grateful state, in wh=
ich case one might imagine it being used in such sentences as {vavlI' vItlh=
o'mo' ghojwI'wI' Damoj 'e' vIlaj.} ("I accept you as my pupil because I owe=
 a debt of gratitude to your father.") or {bItlho'chugh yIvang!} ("If you a=
re grateful, act!"). The phrase {qatlho'} would then be interpreted as "I a=
m grateful towards you", with the implication that one intends to repay the=
 addressee; again, it is a promise of an act to come, not the act itself.
In this case, {tlho'Ha'} would not mean "to thank somebody badly", and perh=
aps it wouldn't even mean "to be ungrateful" in the way that we understand =
it, but rather "to be possessed of misplaced gratitude", or perhaps "to hav=
e repaid one's debt of gratitude".
{ghaH vItlho'Ha'choHmeH ghaHvaD targhwIj nIvqu' vInob.} - "In order to beco=
me ungrateful towards her, I shall give her my finest targ."
{*je'raD* tuq tlho'Ha'mo' tlhIngan yejquv woQ'a' 'oHtaH DuraS tuq'e'.} - "B=
ecause the Klingon High Council has a misplaced sense of gratitude towards =
Ja'rod, it remains a political powerhouse."
{mutoDDI' vItlho'choH 'ej vItoDDI' vItlho'Ha'choH.} - "I became grateful to=
wards him when he saved my life, and became ungrateful when I saved his.")
{mutoDDI' vItlho'choH 'ach vavwI' chotDI' vItlho'Ha'.} - "I became grateful=
 towards her when she saved my life, but lost my gratitude when she murdere=
d my father.}
{vay' DaSeHchu'meH SoHvaD Datlho'nISmoH.} - "To truly control somebody, mak=
e them grateful towards you.}
{vay' vItlho'lI'chugh reH jIbelHa'.} - "I can never be satisfied as long as=
 I have an unpaid debt of gratitude."
{reH tlho'taH qoH neH.} - "Only fools are possessed with undying gratitude.=
"

One might also imagine the NOUN {tlho'} taking on a somewhat different role=
 from its English counterparts. While "gratitude" is a feeling that normall=
y persists even after the feeling of debt has subsided, and is often regard=
ed as a positive feeling, perhaps {tlho'} is more of a need which subsides =
once it has been satisfied.
{may'Daq mutoDDI' muDuQ tlho''a' 'a ngugh wa'ben latlh may'Daq ghaH vItoD. =
vaj vItlho' rIntaH.} - "I was struck with great gratitude when he/sje saved=
 me in battle, but one year hence I saved him/her in another battle. Thus, =
my gratitude towards him/her is complete."

What do y'all think? How should the word {tlho'}? What of other words - suc=
h as {Hoy'} ("to congratulate"), {QoS} ("to be sorry") and {tlhIj} ("to apo=
logize") - which Terrans have evolved rituals around?

**...to which one might respond {chotlho' net poQbe'} or {chotlho' 'e' vIpo=
Qbe'}, but not {chotlho'nISbe'}. If I understand it correctly, -nIS refers =
to a need on the part of the subject, not one imposed by others.

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I've been thinking: We humans are all very used to expressing our emotions =
through words. If we are grateful, we say &quot;Thank you!&quot;. If we are=
 sorry, we say &quot;I'm sorry.&quot;<br>
Words are so powerful that we are sometimes afraid to utter them, or worry =
what will happen if we don't. Case in point: &quot;I love you.&quot;<br>
Indeed, words are so valuable to us that they can be claimed in penance: Yo=
u can demand an apology of somebody, and a court can even sentence you to m=
ake a public apology.<br>
<br>
Klingons have their own ritual words, for example in the case of qa'meH vIt=
tlheghmey and peghmey vIttlheghmey.<br>
In general, though, Klingons are known to be more action-oriented. Indeed, =
the last time I checked my copy of TKW, the proverb {bI'IQchugh, yab Qel yI=
Such.} wasn't in there, and in PK, Worf explicitly states that Klingons don=
't say &quot;Excuse me&quot; or &quot;Thank you&quot;.
 {nughpu' pIm, tIghmey pIm.}<br>
Indeed, MO has stated many times that Klingons don't say {qatlho'}, and I g=
uess we shouldn't be surprised. After all, what function does this word act=
ually serve? If you really NEED to state satisfaction explicitly, there's a=
lready the word {maj}, not to mention
 verbs such as {Quch} and {bel}.<br>
I've been thinking, therefore: What if the word {tlho'} refers to something=
 more than just uttering a ritualized set of words? What if it actually ref=
ers to repaying somebody's honorable actions, not because it is demanded of=
 one but because one feels gratitude
 towards them?<br>
<br>
When somebody does something towards you that merit gratitude, you might as=
k {chay' qatlho'laH} (&quot;How can I thank you?&quot;) or {qatlho'nIS}** (=
&quot;I must thank you&quot;). If one DID say simply {qatlho'}, it would be=
 to say &quot;I will do something to thank you&quot;; it would
 be a promise of an act to come, not the act itself.<br>
One might also say something like {ghaH vItlho'meH ghaHvaD targhwIj nIvqu' =
vInob}; &quot;I shall give him my finest targ as thanks&quot;.<br>
{DutoDbogh tera'nganvaD qagh Danobchugh, Datlho'Ha'.} - &quot;Giving a Terr=
an gagh is a poor way of thanking her for saving your life.&quot;<br>
{tlho'meH targh} - &quot;thank you targ&quot; ('cuz thank you cards are for=
 weaklings)<br>
<br>
...or perhaps {tlho'} really DOES refer to being in a grateful state, in wh=
ich case one might imagine it being used in such sentences as {vavlI' vItlh=
o'mo' ghojwI'wI' Damoj 'e' vIlaj.} (&quot;I accept you as my pupil because =
I owe a debt of gratitude to your father.&quot;)
 or {bItlho'chugh yIvang!} (&quot;If you are grateful, act!&quot;). The phr=
ase {qatlho'} would then be interpreted as &quot;I am grateful towards you&=
quot;, with the implication that one intends to repay the addressee; again,=
 it is a promise of an act to come, not the act itself.<br>
In this case, {tlho'Ha'} would not mean &quot;to thank somebody badly&quot;=
, and perhaps it wouldn't even mean &quot;to be ungrateful&quot; in the way=
 that we understand it, but rather &quot;to be possessed of misplaced grati=
tude&quot;, or perhaps &quot;to have repaid one's debt of gratitude&quot;.<=
br>
{ghaH vItlho'Ha'choHmeH ghaHvaD targhwIj nIvqu' vInob.} - &quot;In order to=
 become ungrateful towards her, I shall give her my finest targ.&quot;<br>
{*je'raD* tuq tlho'Ha'mo' tlhIngan yejquv woQ'a' 'oHtaH DuraS tuq'e'.} - &q=
uot;Because the Klingon High Council has a misplaced sense of gratitude tow=
ards Ja'rod, it remains a political powerhouse.&quot;<br>
{mutoDDI' vItlho'choH 'ej vItoDDI' vItlho'Ha'choH.} - &quot;I became gratef=
ul towards him when he saved my life, and became ungrateful when I saved hi=
s.&quot;)<br>
{mutoDDI' vItlho'choH 'ach vavwI' chotDI' vItlho'Ha'.} - &quot;I became gra=
teful towards her when she saved my life, but lost my gratitude when she mu=
rdered my father.}<br>
{vay' DaSeHchu'meH SoHvaD Datlho'nISmoH.} - &quot;To truly control somebody=
, make them grateful towards you.}<br>
{vay' vItlho'lI'chugh reH jIbelHa'.} - &quot;I can never be satisfied as lo=
ng as I have an unpaid debt of gratitude.&quot;<br>
{reH tlho'taH qoH neH.} - &quot;Only fools are possessed with undying grati=
tude.&quot;<br>
<br>
One might also imagine the NOUN {tlho'} taking on a somewhat different role=
 from its English counterparts. While &quot;gratitude&quot; is a feeling th=
at normally persists even after the feeling of debt has subsided, and is of=
ten regarded as a positive feeling, perhaps
 {tlho'} is more of a need which subsides once it has been satisfied.<br>
{may'Daq mutoDDI' muDuQ tlho''a' 'a ngugh wa'ben latlh may'Daq ghaH vItoD. =
vaj vItlho' rIntaH.} - &quot;I was struck with great gratitude when he/sje =
saved me in battle, but one year hence I saved him/her in another battle. T=
hus, my gratitude towards him/her is
 complete.&quot;<br>
<br>
What do y'all think? How should the word {tlho'}? What of other words - suc=
h as {Hoy'} (&quot;to congratulate&quot;), {QoS} (&quot;to be sorry&quot;) =
and {tlhIj} (&quot;to apologize&quot;) - which Terrans have evolved rituals=
 around?<br>
<br>
**...to which one might respond {chotlho' net poQbe'} or {chotlho' 'e' vIpo=
Qbe'}, but not {chotlho'nISbe'}. If I understand it correctly, -nIS refers =
to a need on the part of the subject, not one imposed by others.<br>
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