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To be or not to be...

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Joy E. Stein)
Tue Aug 17 02:57:52 1993

Date:         Tue, 17 Aug 1993 01:56:39 -0500
Reply-To: "Joy E. Stein" <STEI4703%FREDONIA.BITNET@mitvma.mit.edu>
From: "Joy E. Stein" <STEI4703%FREDONIA.BITNET@mitvma.mit.edu>
To: Multiple recipients of list APO-L <APO-L%PURCCVM.BITNET@mitvma.mit.edu>

Brothers,
I am in need of some advice. Our chapter was in danger
of dying last year with five active brothers. We had
six when our one pledge became a brother. Of those
brothers, one graduated, one did not re-enroll
 at Fredonia (the school in question), and one
 went inactive. We are down to three active
 brothers. I am not sure if we are even going
 to have a chapter next year. I have
 heard of people coming back from
 extreme chapter problems, and that
 positive things are worth fighting for.
 On top of this, we are supposed to be
 holding a sectional service project
 for next November, and I am its chair.
 I actually set up the preliminary stuff,
 but put it on hold for a while.
 I have not heard from either of the
 other two women in my chapter
 after July, when I decided my long
 distance phone bills were out of hand.
 Both of the people in question, however,
 were extremely busy. This summer I worked
 full time, and took classes. Perhaps
 it could be written off as a comedy of
 errors. The project in question was supposed
 to be a Thanksgiving-time held at our college lodge.
 I am not sure what people would think of me
 cancelling this service project, as I am now
 its sole acting chair. If that continues
 to be a one-woman project, it is
 probably not worth anyone's time to
 attend. Is this project worth keeping, guys?
 The deposit on the lodge was already paid,
 and word of the project spread via the list,
 and by word of mouth only. Or am I
 a hopeless idealistic, who needs to resort
 through her priorities? Thank you.
 Sincerely, Joy Stein

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