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Re: [APO-L] alumnus or alumnus for women?

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Buddha Buck)
Tue May 27 12:17:07 2003

Date:         Tue, 27 May 2003 12:16:58 -0400
Reply-To: Buddha Buck <bmbuck@14850.com>
From: Buddha Buck <bmbuck@14850.com>
To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU
In-Reply-To:  <Pine.PMDF.3.95.1030527091959.59557D-100000@DRYCAS.CLUB.CC.CMU.EDU>

(I sent this to the wrong location first, I meant it to be public, but I
sent it to Randy alone first).

Randy Finder wrote:

>Is a female brother who has graduated refered to as an alumnus of Alpha
>Phi Omega or an alumna or Alpha Phi Omega? Opinions?
>
Opinion 1)  I would consider her an alumna, not an alumnus.  The use of
"Brother" is not intended to strip her of her gender.  We would not
refer to her as "he", or call ther the father of her offspring.  Brother
is a specific title, isolated by us from gender within the
organization.  It is the title that is gender neutral, not the person.

However....

Opinion 2)  I would actually refer to her as a Brother, or more
specifically an Alumni Brother, of Alpha Phi Omega.  I am not an alumnus
of Alpha Phi Omega, I am an alumnus of University at Buffalo.  I an am
Alumni Brother of Epsilon Sigma chapter, Alpha Phi Omega.

>(I always used alumnus to refer to both genders, but I'm talking to a
>board member who uses alumna for women).
>
>

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