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[APO-L] Fwd: Re: [APO-L] Issue Two

daemon@ATHENA.MIT.EDU (Charles Brace)
Tue Nov 12 16:50:50 2002

Date:         Tue, 12 Nov 2002 16:50:46 -0500
Reply-To: Charles Brace <brace347@HOTMAIL.COM>
From: Charles Brace <brace347@HOTMAIL.COM>
To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU

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<DIV>&gt;From: Sherrie Vander Vliet <SAVANDER@HOLLY.COLOSTATE.EDU></DIV>
<DIV></DIV>&gt;Reply-To: Sherrie Vander Vliet <SAVANDER@HOLLY.COLOSTATE.EDU>
<DIV></DIV>&gt;To: APO-L@LISTSERV.IUPUI.EDU
<DIV></DIV>&gt;Subject: Re: [APO-L] Issue Two
<DIV></DIV>&gt;Date: Tue, 12 Nov 2002 11:25:32 -0700
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<DIV></DIV>&gt;Around here, our pledges don't just collect signatures. We have notebooks
<DIV></DIV>&gt;made up by our big brothers filled with interview questions. There are
<DIV></DIV>&gt;different interviews for different groups of people
<DIV></DIV>&gt;(pledges/actives/advisors). The questions are like ice-breakers. This
<DIV></DIV>&gt;helps encourage pledges to get to know both each other (through pledge
<DIV></DIV>&gt;interviews), actives (through active interviews) and advisors (through
<DIV></DIV>&gt;advisor interviews). This also helps the actives get to know, and spend
<DIV></DIV>&gt;some time with, the new pledges. I don't consider this hazing. Does anyone
<DIV></DIV>&gt;else?
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<DIV>I don't see how having pledges interview themselves and brothers could be considered as hazing.&nbsp; If it was, most APO chapters would have to redo its pledging process.</DIV>
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<DIV>As far as the "all" issue goes, obtaining "all" the signatures of the brothers is not per se a problem.&nbsp; I know of a number of chapters that require pledges to (for example) interview "all" active brothers.&nbsp; I think as has been previously stated, "all" shouldn't be an inflexible standard, especially when circumstances warrant.&nbsp; Therefore, I am not opposed to an "all" standard.</DIV>
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<DIV>Now, for the "blackballing" issue....no one brother should have to power to veto a pledge.&nbsp; There needs to be a percentage of "no" votes to not activate a pledge (conversely, there needs to be a percentage of "yes" votes to activate a pledge).&nbsp; Let's say a 2/3 yes vote is required to activate.&nbsp; The only instance that i can think of that a single brother would have the power to veto is if there was only 2 active brothers in the chapter.&nbsp; Since under this situation, the chapter would most likely want to get all the bodies it can get, i don't think that this is a very big problem in the fraternity at large....</DIV>
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<DIV>in LFS</DIV>
<DIV>--chuck brace</DIV>
<DIV>Alum, Pi Chi Chapter</DIV>
<DIV>Honorary, Phi Chapter</DIV>
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